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Hi all,
I dont know the relevance of my idea in this kerala erotica, but I could not simply walk away with my feelings, so I decided to write something about male to male relationship, Please excuse this is not a story...just a discussion or revealing a part of my mind. I would like to make a little bit change about gay relationship and I will try for that in every walks of my life.
About me, I am Console, 26 yrs old male, Kollam, Kerala, India.
I am not sure, most of the people believes gay relationship as a matter of fun, entertainment, and something, an act of heroism...that's it...nothing more or nothing less...a token of enjoyment. The irony is that in most of the people, I found a strong sense of love to their partner or friend, but that sense of love has limited life just as a raindrop or to be precise just to the time of cum flushing...love or whatever the affection it ends there....in some cases it will extent to some phone calls or mails maybe only for the purpose of next dating or arrangement of next location...and call these as friendhship...I dont know in what sense.
I feel this is a pathetic situation, why we are moving like this and what is the intention behind these kind of doings...I didn't get a clear answer yet. It is true, everyone demands love and care sincerely from all in each and every walks of our life. Everyone wishes for a nice world full of love and care, but this thought is not implented in most of the relationships, especially gay relationship. If we consider male-male relationship in this manner, I think the world would not admit the essence of love in gay relationship.
I am here only to discuss the matter, gay relationship. My idea is to console gay relationship.
I think in most of male-male relationship people are interested in a sincere relationship, but the matter is that they are not willing to take initiative or not thinking about that too much. Sometimes, they have no idea about that.
Just leave the past and think about the future. Most of them have m-m relationship in childhood with friends, neighbors, relatives, some accidental meetings while in travel or in professional stages of life. In some cases even after marriage or after successful married life...too many people engaged in male-male relationship..and too much fun...we got lot of lusty memories..and enjoyment...just leave the past okay..
Folks, please look at your heart, do u feel anything blankness or some sort of dryness there..then it is time for you to take a decision Whether you would like to continue a male-male relationship and if your mind says "yes" then make up your mind for a monogamous partner.....
Ya, most of them are confused with the term "monogamous". Its very simple dear..one male partner at a time. If you are married, its okay maintain the relationship with her and she will be ranked always first, but if you would like to continue you other part of affection towards a male, then you should be restricted that affection to one male person, one male person only in all means.
In formula,
Single person - Male (you) + Male (one male partner)
Married person - Male (you) + wife (only your wife) + male (one male partner)
Ya, single person concept is something I need to discuss a little bit brief.
Single person maybe a gay or bisexual. If you are a confident gay person, then no doubt, you should maintain monogamous relationship to one person and enjoy the life. If you are a bisexual, then possiblity of a lady is there, so go ahead with that lady and still your mind needs a male partner, select one male and enjoy the life with heart. Be truthful to your
partners.
I know, these plans contains cheating and immoral things in different aspects of life especially in married guys. In most cases, you cannot share your male affection to your wife ( I know it is a very hard time), so for a better family life, you need to hide this from your wife. It is a sort of cheating, but compared to the present state of gay relationships around the world, I think this plan can create some kind of moral or console to gay relationship.
I admit these ideas are not fully perfect, because in this idea I considered only gay and bisexuals also, I just want to chalkout a simple common formula for these 2 groups.
I don't think a straight guy will apply this formula in his life, so I fully ignored the respected straight group. Straight guys follow the natural law applied for you ie for one man one woman. Ya, maybe you have accidental gay relationships, please ignore that and go ahead with your gifted natural orientation, but dont think that gay or bisexual people are inferior and if you get a chance in life please respect and ignore..dont jump into a gay relationship for fun...there is nothing behind that...in most cases it will make confusion in your life.
I think I can windup here...and I will write more based on the comments and suggestions.
Please post your suggestions and comments to consolegayfriendship@yahoo.com.
Thanks
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